Ok, so this is a question seeking an answer to clear up whatever gymnastics are in my head. I'm a moderately attractive guy, sincere heart, genuinely looking to love another, established. Why don't women that I'm attracted to, want me back?

It's not about what YOU want. It's about what THEY want. Your opinion of your attractiveness is not what they see.

If you say you'll call, call. Be honest.

Take it from a man that knows.

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Don't be a drunk. Drink something you don't like so you won't drink a lot. Scotch tastes terrible. Buy top shelf. Have it with water and on the rocks. Top off with more water as you slowly nurse the drink. This will give both the appearance and smell of drinking, but will keep your wits sharp (and save $).

If you see a group of, say, five women, on average, one will be hot, three average, and one not so hot.

Don't be too fussy. A plain woman, who thinks YOU are a stunner, will treat YOU better than a stunner, that thinks you should worship her, and who treats you like dog meat. Initially, you don't want to exclude too many for not meeting YOUR standards. Instead concentrate on meeting THEIR standards.

Why does my private parts itch so much during certain periods?

Make her laugh. Most women want a man that makes her laugh. Learn some jokes. Funny nonsexual ones, ones with a little innuendo, and dirty ones. Save the dirty ones for last and don't over do them unless she's into it. Read your audience.

Ask, and listen, about THEM. Repeat back points to let them know you really listened. After you're chatting, gently and nonsexually touch their skin with yours. A small, brief, touch on the hand or arm (nothing grabby) is all that's needed to form a positive impression.

Ever been hunting? Thrashing around, looking everywhere, drives the game away or to ground. Successful hunters set up a stand and quietly wait for the game to find them. By “quietly wait", that means don't overdrink or act the fool. The cool, polite (no ho's or bitches), guys, get the ladies. Women aren't attracted to drunken, rude, frat boys, nor are they impressed when you puke on their shoes.

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Don't be “whitebread", stand out, women love just a whiff of danger.

Sit near the Ladies. Women will pass by, smile & see if any smile back. (Do it when they leave the Ladies, they'll be able to talk then. They're too focused to chat on the way in. LOL)

If you DO score, the key to being a good lover, is to satisfy your partner, before yourself. It's not a race. In bed, winners finish LAST!

Why are black women the largest unmarried group in the United States of America?

Stop looking so hard, it reeks of desperation. Desperation is repulsive and folx can sense it a mile away. Stop looking and let them find you.

The world's most effective opening is “HI, I'm _____. What's your name?” As soon as possible, give them an honest, non-sexual, complement like “I like your smile.” Don't pretend, be yourself, be honest. You can't start a relationship on lies.

Approach one of the average ones. She might be impressed by you, in the presence of the stunner, picking her and will think you're really attracted. If the 1st average one says no, ask the remaining average ones next, then the plain one, and finally the stunner. As if the stunner was the farthest thing from what you want. She may be intrigued by why you didn't choose her first, and her injured pride, (I'm so hot every man wants me!) may make her chase you!

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Many men don't learn the signs that a woman is interested in them. If you catch a woman's eye from across the room, and then she gives you a small smile, looks down, and then looks back, this is a sign she's open to your approach. It's called the “come hither" look.

Dress one step better than the average guy at wherever you're going. Be clean, dress neat, be polite, brush your teeth & hair (use different brushes - LOL). Easy on the cologne, too much makes women think you don't bathe and are trying to cover the stink. Don't smoke cigs or vape.

I'm over 65 and, over the years, have had several hundred women. I was a swashbuckling, swinging, biker, and for a period of ten plus years, averaged a new woman every three weeks.

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Speak softly. (In a bar, I know, right?) This makes her lean in to hear.

Stand nude in front of a full length mirror and take an honest look at yourself. What's important isn't what you want, but what the females want. Are you batting out of your league? Are you drawn only to stunners? Are you really a toad? Do you think the women you hope for, are hoping for YOU? Really?

Don't start hunting too soon. Give the frat boys time to get stupid. A neat, sober, guy is way more attractive than a sloppy drunk.

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Too many will hit on the stunner first. The stunner only ever says “No.” and then the rest know you think they don't make the grade.

Learn massage basics & rub her feet, shoulders & neck. Scratch her back across her bra strap - women ALWAYS have an itch there! LOL

You can also tell how much sex a woman has had by the width of the gap between her legs. Only horseback riding and sex make that dimension widen. Unit of measurement is a finger width. 1-virgin, 2-has had a bf, 3-probably has had a child, 4-ask, she says "yes", 5+ -porn star or pro.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

You can spend all night buying the skinny-mini hottie girl drinks and go home alone crying, or you can pick the slightly rounder, 4 finger gap WOMAN, and not wake by yourself.

Be a gentleman, open doors, be polite, offer your hand/arm.

Like the skinny, no ass girls? Well, that's the problem. They only have that skinny figure because they're still GIRLS. When girls become women (they lose their virginity) certain changes happen to their bodies in anticipation of reproduction. The body puts a layer of fat over the baby maker. This gives women a little "pouch" below her naval that can't (shouldn't) be exercised off. Her hips get wider and the breasts get bigger. This is all natural and should be attractive.

What is the sluttiest thing your wife has ever done?

Others hit on the “not so hot" first. She knows she's the worst of the lot, and knows you're bottom feeding. So do the others, and then they all see you as a conceited jerk.